1Add the digits: you always get 3, 6 or 9
Take any answer in the 3s and add its digits: 12 gives 1 + 2 = 3, 15 gives 6, 18 gives 9, 21 gives 3 again, and so on all the way to 36. The pattern 3, 6, 9 repeats forever. It is a great self-check: if your child says 3 × 8 = 25, the digits add to 7, so something is off. (The true answer, 24, adds to 6.)
2Double it, then add one more group
Three groups is two groups plus one more. For 3 × 7, double 7 to get 14, then add another 7 to get 21. This turns a fact your child does not know yet into two steps they already can do, which feels much less scary than guessing.
3Count by 3s with a beat
Clap on every third number while counting: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6… After a few rounds, say only the clapped numbers: 3, 6, 9, 12, 15. Children who learn rhythmically often lock the 3s in this way faster than with flash cards alone.
4Use the facts you already own
Your child already knows 3 × 1, 3 × 2, 3 × 5 and 3 × 10 from other tables. Flip-around facts help too: 3 × 2 is the same as 2 × 3. That leaves only a handful of genuinely new facts to practice, mainly 3 × 7, 3 × 8 and 3 × 12.